Just a really quick thingie here. Why do we put up different fronts when we are around other people? Are we truly that ashamed to let people know how we really act? Oh sure, there are some things that Im sure I dont want to know about you, but that is pushing it a little too far. I mean, when a new person is around. Weve had friends spend a few days over before, and when we take them out to visit some of our other friends, the mood is changed. Is it just because we are that unused to change? Are we too stubborn to be the least bit malleable?
Now this is a cop-out, but I consider myself having an excuse. We moved every few years, so in order to stay from being social outcasts (not like we arent already), we did take on a slight variation of the persons persona. Just to make them feel that much more comfortable. But I also think that is one of the ways to make friends in that book how to win friends and influence people or something like that.
So yeah. I shouldve spent more time on this and really fleshed out some more ideas, but my mind is pretty slow right now. Maybe because I was pulling weeds last night. You know how that weed gets to you after a while ;)